taxes,lawer,proposal

Due to lack of work we can no longer keep paying all are expensives.They out weigh are income.I have no work for my business because of the economy has begun to collapse.I am 2 years behind in taxes.Now just meeting a son i never new i had have got to pay childsupport and possibly 4 years back pay,and lawyer fees.I need serious help but would take anything to help my wife and daughter get through this terrible mess.I owe $10,500 for proposal.Lawer fees im guessing $3000.00.Taxes $25,000.