I do not know where to start. We are a family of 5, 3 girls ages 5,6,9. We\'ve been married for 14 years and were always debt free, until the last 3. We listen to dave Ramsey, do the envelope system..drive junker cars(one is held together with bubble gum and wire). My husband is already working 2 jobs, his regular full time, and part time at a gas station. We had it good. But that was 3 years ago, then I went to my first visit to a new doctor, he ran some test and my hemoglobin was at 2.8. My body was literally shutting itself down and it\'s taken a toll. Since then, I have had 51 blood transfusions. More test that I can count, have had 5 ivs in my arms at once while they try to make you bleed. MRIS. cat scans, Image test, blood work, colonocpucys(sp), etc..they can not find the bleed. They have no idea what it is, or what is causing it My husband has insurance, but it is 60/40..not the best. We had always paid our medical bills,and allother bills, but now we have ran up $25!
000.00 in credit cards to pay most, we HAD good credit. And more and more bills keep coming in, from $10.00 to the $1200.00 ones..imange a stay for 3 days, w/test, and 7 units of blood at once..all the hosptial docs..plus my regular GP, a GIdoc, a specialist, a surgeron..u name it I think I have seen the doc..If my mother (who can not help, she is on disability herself) did not make the drive to us,I do not know what we would have and will do for child care. We are now robbing peter to pay paul, and are one missed check from everything crashing down on us. My youngest is still at home,so with what I would make, it would cost me almost everything in daycare. They don\'t know what my problem is so I can\'t file for any disability. With my husbands 2 jobs, we make to much to get any help. Then even w/what little help they do offer, were better off w/his 2nd job. I have tried everything.With our credit, we can get nothing now. I can not work when I have low blood, I literally s!
leep 16-20 hours a day when it is real low, you can not think or funct
ion at all, you are cold and miserable! and now I have to limit myself going to get blood against my docs advice b/c of the bills, and the hospital telling me that if I don\'t pay, they can refuse to treat me, period. Sometimes I wonder if my family would be better off without me...I feel like if I do not get out of this black hole of debt, and unknown medical problem that, that they might be better off without me.Yes, I do have a computer and internet access. My best friend gave me her 6 year old relic(no complaints-she runs great!) when she upgrade, and I do indulage in 9.95 dial up bellsouth..I do not smoke, drink, party, go out, etc...plus my oldest one uses it quite a bit for school work and my 2 little ones enjoy playing it as well. I am asking for PRAYERS, an medical advice, and help...I know that there area lot of fakes and scammers out there, but I promise you that I have no where else to turn, all the family I have is my mom, and on his side we have an elderly aunt!
, and his dad who is retired and on a limited income as well.. I am desperate and don\'t know what else to do before this totally overwhelms me...I know this has been said a million time, but I have never done this..and I can not tell you how much it bruises my pride to do so. My husband literally hangs his head in shame because he feels that he is not supporting his family. I feel like it all is runing all of our life\'s, esp. my children\'s life, they did not ask for a sick mother, or for there parents not to be able to pay there bills, my marriage is strained. I\'m losing my mind...Thanks you for taking the time to read my post, and PLEASE pray for me...
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